Sorry guys. Updates soon I promise. Internet is being wonky. Maintenace is going well! ;) <Trisha>

Anticipation, Updates and Thoughts

Aeon & I have been making a great deal of progress in our D/s marriage. I have been known in the past to use my blog to rant about what I feel may be wrong or how I wish things where different. I do this knowing that Aeon reads my blog and so I can in a sense say what I need to say with out having to actually face him. Now I know that this is some what weaselly and petty but cut me some slack I have hard time expressing disappointment to my D.

The past few weeks have been great. I am coming along and making strides at being more...acceptable I guess. I hate the word obedient it makes feel like a golden retriever. I have been trying to be more of who I should be and trying to follow our rules more. I am in no way saying I have been perfect far from. Just that I am trying and not just Aeons nerves.

In turn Aeon has been wearing his Dom pants more regularly lately. He has found he is done with my bratting and bitching and he is willing to put a stop to it. On New Years Eve as a matter of fact I was being more than a tad unruly and Aeon escorted me to our bedroom and warmed my rear rather well and informed me that he had had enough. Needless to say I was MUCH better behaved from that point on.

Aeon and I have decided that maintenance is a necessity. We have decided on Monday, Wednesday & Friday mornings before he leaves for work. We will be starting with 5 spankings and that could change as time goes on. For us, Monday is significant. I am a SAHM and Mondays are hard for me. On Mondays I tend to miss Aeon a GREAT deal. With the missing comes the bratting. I get agitated at the feeling of being needy. So I act out. Hopefully this will help.

We are also prepping our Sub-Shop list. The goal for us right now is not so much to have all of hearts desires but rather a few key pieces that we really want. We are also looking to add a nice paddle or 2 to our stash. So any thoughts on any needies or paddles please let me know.

Lately I have been thinking about what has brought Aeon and I to this point. You see of the 2 of us most people who claim to "know" us see me as the dominant. Aeon is very laid back and relaxed. Very little ruffles him and he has always been a roll with it kind of guy. I however, tend to be a more fight fire with fire, rally in the streets, take no prisoner kind of chick. The truth is if you really know Aeon you would see that he has always held the reins in some form with our relationship. He has always heavily influenced my decisions and I have more often than not tried to avoid disappointing or angering him. I have never feared him in the way that I thought he would hurt me or commit some act of violence but I hated to upset him.

So back to anticipation.... my anticipation is the mornings maintenance that is coming. I do not know what to expect. I do not know how to prepare. I do not like not knowing!

Wish me luck and as always your thoughts and ideas are ALWAYS welcome. I am grateful for all of you and for your help.

Welcome Lord-Tao!

Hello fellow bloggers! I know I have been in a very ask-y mood lately and again I need to call upon my friends. I am hoping to get some help for a good friend of Aeon & i. We have known Tao for many, many years and he has recently (this week) come to identify himself as a member of our life style. He feels he leans more to the Dom side but favors aspects of the Master side also. Because he is new to our lifestyle Aeon has been gracious enough to let me help him out a little. I am permitted to "introduce" him around on the web through my blog and I have helped him to establish a fetlife account.

What I am asking is that if any of you wonderful, kind, sophistacated Dom's, sub's, Master's and/or slave's are able and/or willing please take the time to stop by fetlife and give a looky-loo to Lord-Tao. He could use some advice and a little guidance to help him get on his feet so to speak.

Thank you all in advance for all of your help and thank you for always being there.

Maintenance: To Be or Not to Be

Spankings...love them or hate them they are what they are. Aeon and I have come to a point

when a decision needs to be made and I am AGAIN asking my blogging buddies Dom's, subs,

Masters, slaves and spankos alike for an opinion and feed back. Please we need feed back!

1) Maintenance spankings...yes or no?

2) If yes how often?

3) How many?

4) Do you feel they "work" for your relationship?

5) Hand or implement?

Aeon and I have discovered that I am more...receptive I guess after a spanking. We are asking

for help to determine maintenance. Please feel free to give your opinion. I appreciate any and all

help.

Miscommunication

Just a quick question for my fellow blogger's before I head off to bed:

Do you sometimes find it difficult to clearly your communicate your needs/wants to you S/O?

This goes out to all my fellow blogger's, Dom's, sub's, Master/Mistress, sub, owner or owned.

Are you ever at a loss for just the right words?